Sudokuaholics Anonymous 6

OOPS

Boring Broni, want to add my ironing to your list?

How'd that happen???

I got kicked off Sudoku in the middle of a post and missed the TOPP.

Heidi.

Suzy, you are going to need to update the TOPP list soon. I have lost track.

(Too lazy to type hedonistic today Heidi!)

Just had a call from my sis
They are having trouble with her mil
she has dementia,
and had a break down yesterday,
the family will now need to sit down and discuss their options,
sis was asking what I would suggest,
I think they need respite,
but she wont take kindly to that....

That explains it. When I got #7400, I figured that you or Suzy had the TOPP.

My brother in law is an only child for the mum,
so its even more difficult, for the decision making,
she has remarried and the new husband has 3 boys and they want to put their two bos worth in,
makes for a family fued hey.............

Oh, Liz..... How stressful for everyone. There is no solution that will make everyone happy.

that is two bobs worth..

Lizzy, I will be thinking of your sis. Went through dementia with my grandmother. My parents finally had to put her into a nursing home as there was no way to care for her at our house. It was not an easy choice and one I hope I am never faced with for my parents.

Liz, I sometimes think I am uncaring and a horrible person, but here is my opinion...

MIL can get better care with the right respite - trained workers and purpose built surroundings - with frequent visits which will be more loving because of reduced family stress levels. Basically, I don't think it matters what she would 'take kindly to' if her safety and the happiness of her family is at stake.

I agree Suzy. That solution is in the MIL's best interests. There is nothing uncaring about it.

Go and spray the Lemon Tree and you lot are off and running!

Well, the sheep are waiting for their suppers, and the pigeons need fresh water, co I've gotta go.

co???? that's "SO".

I have to go cook dinner for the boys. Catch up with all you later. Have a good day/night wherever you might be.

No Suzy Im with you
for the families sanity,
they have no choice,
and as I work in the field I hope they listen to my advice,
put her into respite for say two weeks and give yourself some time to recharge your batteries and think about whats best for her,
and the family,
the husband gets very badly abused by her, (verbally)
and hes wearing thin.
his words were "she's still alive but just"

If thats not someone crying out for help.....

CO worked fine as we are the sudoku company

HEHEHE

Plans for today,
Have to go to the bank this morning,
then this arvo going to a girlfriends house,
we plan a big walk, around a lake in Lilydale,
then going to get something healthy to take back to her place to cook up for dinner,
was thinking lamb backstraps, cooked on the BBQ, with a yoghurt dressing and a green salad,
yummo making me hungry thinking about it.

Here's a TOPPs list for you Tami...

36 - June
19 - Heidi
18 - Suzy
11 - Vici
10 - eaa, Tricia
9 - Bean, Gail, Tami
7 - Liz
6 - Broni
5 - Mariana, RolaDahlia, Susan
4 - Julie, Stella
3 - Becky, Mamacita
2 - Canuk Greg, CynB, Rena, Viv
1 - Brenda, Nola, Mary/WA, Ruby, VdV

Auditor !! !! !! !!

On Thursday going shopping with Gail and Bean,
although Gail said as long as it aint the kinda shop that Suzy went to,
how much fun would that be, HEHE
but nooooooooooooo way.

I was going to put in the new names, but they change all the time!!

My plans for the day are ironing and wet room STUFF...

WOW!! Tami is at 9!!

I am sooooo sorry! I swore! My apologies everyone...

Gail has no sense of adventure! Mind you, now that I've gone to that shop, I'm not in a huge hurry to return....

Stopped back in for a minute. Thanks Suzy. I am trying to get ahead of Vici. Don't know if I will be able to catch up to you and I know I will never catch June.

WOW Suzy
I'm making my way up the ladder,
so look out you lot,
Bean, Gail and Tami are next
to get knocked off their perches...

Good morning lovely SA6 people.
All these names and I still don't have one - I'm leaning toward sCintillating Cynthia but not sure as I'm anything but.
Liz - I agree - respite is the way to go. We had these problems with Dad when he was still home and Mum was looking after him. We'd get him into respite to give her a break. Until the day my gentle loving Dad, hit and kicked my mother and even she realised that he had to go into care. She immediately lapsed into dementia herself (TIA's Liz).

Suzy, I don't blame you for putting in the new names. Stick to the old ones. They are shorter and easier to type. Thanks for keeping the list updated. I am sure it is a lot of work and I appreciate it.

Heidi, once I get ahead of Vici I am coming after you. Dizzy Lizzy, I enjoy competition so "Bring It On"

And you're ahead of me Heidi!!!

Wow! Watch TamiTT go on the TOPP's list and I'm still at 2. How did CGreg get 2? I'm missing so much lately.

Can't leave now, only 9 more to TOPP.

Actually only 6 more.

So proper etiquette for the sudoku site,
is that sucky thingy
and the hot thing you slide over clothes.

come on everyone. the race is on!!!!

I don't know how to use the hot slidy thing. My husband uses the sucky thing.

I am allergic to housework. That is my story and I am sticking to it.

I'll try!